I find Dr. Coleman to be extremely rude and insensitive to children. He does not allow you to go back with the child, which I understand in some instances, however, when your child has just gone through a traumatic experience and he won't let you back then I say it's time to go. He also tells your child that whatever it is that he is doing does not hurt, when in fact it does. What is that teaching the child? That what she is going through and the feelings she has are not valid? In this day of predation upon our children, a mother needs to listen to her kids. If your kid says he/she does not like Dr. Coleman--RUN!