I have dealt with scary, incompetent dentists before. Thankfully a friend recommended Dr. Ingalls when I needed oral sugery. His manner is pleasant, and he makes sure you FEEL NO PAIN. My husband has since gone to see him with the same positive outcome. He is about 5-10% more expensive than some, but when you fear dental work like I did, it is well worth it! (And they take insurance) He is very well liked, so you may have to set your appointments out a bit.